Understanding death and illness and what they teach about life : an interactive guide for individuals with autism or Asperger's and their loved ones

A mother's essay|Message from the author|Using this book|Important information for the reader|Illness and injury|Recuperating and healing|Death and dying : who, what, when, where and how|When someone is dying|Communication|What happens to the person who dies|Putting pets to sleep|Rituals and traditions|Taking care of the physical body|What people say and do|Taking care of the soul : more rituals and traditions|Continuing a relationship|People's reactions after someone dies|More names for emotions|What does it mean if someone says...|What people may learn about life when facing death|being inspired : role models and mentors|Quotes|Just for fun : idioms|Resources for more information

"In this book, you will find a comprehensive treatment of death focusing on things most likely to concern those with ASD presented in the clear, straightforward and concrete manner that is most likely to help those on the spectrum, as well as professionals, family members, or friends that are concerned about them." - BOOK JACKET

Catherine Faherty discusses a range of issues that go from why death happens to what sort of rituals and traditions may occur, then on to what happens to the person after they’ve died, and what to expect at funerals to name just a few. There is even a section focusing on pets. For every issue discussed there is a check list that will clarify personal experiences and expectations.

A significant portion of this book addresses reactions and emotions. Catherine simply states all the possibilities in a non judgmental way with suggestions for what may or may not be true for the reader. I particularly liked the inclusion of the feelings and needs of the person who is dying. It was done in a very sensitive and considerate way.

Suitable for helping children as well as adults, I wish I had had something like this for when my 11yr old daughter had to face the death of her 11 year old best friend. This beautifully illustrated resource will be an invaluable tool in helping families or support groups supporting those with autism towards a better understanding and acceptance of illness and death.